I want to take the time to let you hear my heart on why I decided to bring Tyler on the Dear Featured

Wifi podcast.

A lot of people have been reaching out to me asking me to interview him and immediately

I said, nah, I saw a lot of content about him and I cast judgment.

I'm going to be straight up honest with you.

I cast judgment and said, nope, don't want to bring him on here because I don't want to give him a place to lie.

That is the opposite of what the Dear Future Wifey

podcast is all about. It's about creating a safe space for people to share their stories,

whether we agree with it or not. And my mission is to bring about healing, to bring about

healing in all parties that's involved.

And if I can just plant a seed, plant a seed in Tyler's mind

or everybody else that's involved in this situation,

if I can plant a seed of hope, restoration, redemption, healing,

then I've done my job.

I'm not sure if that mission will be accomplished today, but it's worth to try.

And so it's my hope that this podcast plants the seed where Tyler is able to look back on and become a better man.

So I want you to stay tuned to after the episode and you'll hear my reflective thoughts.

And I'll be able to share if what I hope for is accomplished or if there's still

work to be done. Give grace, have an open ear, and listen. It's not easy by any means. It's tough. I'm just trying to picture what life looks like you know

and the question you asked me you know what would i want i don't know and that's okay that's okay

right now for today in this conversation but if i call you a couple of weeks from now and i say

what what do you want you still say i know i will challenge you and say you haven't put in the work because while it's a difficult situation,

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