This is the Authentic Sex Podcast, Real Life Conversations about sex, pleasure and relationships.

I'm your host, Juliet Allen.

Welcome to another episode of the Authentic Sex Podcast.

My name is Juliet.

I'm your host.

I'm a sexologist, tantra practitioner and sex and relationship coach.

And it's an absolute pleasure to be hosting this podcast. I love delivering this content to you and sharing what I've learned personally and professionally.

And I'm delighted to receive your feedback that you're loving it. So welcome welcome I've had a lot of requests to

talk about orgasmic energy and a lot of women who've said you know how do you

how can I take my orgasms from clitoral to energetic and ex and more expansive

orgasms.

So I actually have no plan for this podcast.

I just know that that's what I want to talk about.

So, okay, I've spoken about this in my masturbation for the modern woman, but I'm going to speak about it again.

I also want to speak about and speak into ejaculation for men too, because clitoral orgasms and ejaculation for men are very similar in what they give us and how we experience them.

Firstly, I want to talk about how as children and as adults, we're not taught how to hold pleasure in our body. And I think this is part of the

problem of why we are not, why are we focusing on the goal of orgasm in particular and why we

generally are not, most of us are not experiencing really deeply ecstatic orgasmic states.

So, you know that feeling when you're really horny and turned on and there's like this kind of pull in your base?

It's like in your sex centre you can feel the energy moving and that's that horny feeling what I want to encourage you to do

is when you're feeling that instead of going straight for self-pleasureing and

coming as a man so just going for it and then ejaculating, or as a woman,

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