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In 'Thicker Than Water,' Kerry Washington processes a family secret

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Arts, Books

4.2 β€’ 672 Ratings

πŸ—“οΈ 10 November 2023

⏱️ 18 minutes

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Kerry Washington is well-known for her roles in Scandal, Little Fires Everywhere and Django Unchained. But in her new memoir, she reveals a LOT that the public doesn't know about her – and one big thing she didn't even know about herself until fairly recently. In today's episode, Washington sits down with NPR's Juana Summers for a two-part conversation about how a secret her parents kept for decades challenged – and strengthened – her relationship with them, and how she's managed the vulnerability that comes with sharing that journey with the rest of the world.

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0:00.0

Hey, it's Empair's Book of the Day. I'm Andrew Limbaugh. Parents keep secrets. For better or worse,

0:08.1

I imagine all of our parents have at least a little thing about their lives that they're keeping to themselves.

0:14.8

Carrie Washington's memoir, Thicker Than Water, is all about a very big secret that her parents kept from her.

0:21.0

And what's interesting about the way she lays out the story to NPR's Juana Summers

0:24.3

is that Washington's parents didn't reveal their secret because they had all come to some,

0:29.9

you know, ineffable right and good place in their relationship.

0:33.3

No, no, no, instead, her parents got boxed into it and had to come clean.

0:37.3

But it sounds like that was the impetused into it and had to come clean.

0:43.8

But it sounds like that was the impetus for the three of them to achieve, that place of better understanding.

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1:06.0

Carrie Washington is no stranger to playing characters holding on to massive secrets.

1:11.4

It was an occupational hazard for political fixer Olivia Pope on the hit series scandal. If you don't get subpoenaed, this never happened. And in Little Fires Everywhere, Washington stars as

1:17.0

Mia, a surrogate who runs away to raise the baby she carried for another family as her own.

1:23.1

Only one other person knows her secret by the time Mia's daughter is a teenager.

1:28.0

Did I do the right thing?

1:29.9

Keeping the truth from her.

1:32.1

Only you know that.

1:34.0

As Mia listens to her friend, her face buckles in pain, tears streaming down her face.

1:39.7

In real life, Carrie Washington says that take of the scene mirrored the pain of a real life secret.

1:45.9

It's one of many private, personal revelations that Washington lays bare in her new memoir,

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