When you don't speak your truth, you are guaranteed to not get what you want.

And when you share your desire, state your boundaries, and stand up for yourself,

you make it clear to the universe exactly what and whom you want to call into your life. It's time to

unmute yourself. For two and a half years I stayed silent in pain. I fooled myself

into thinking I was sharing my needs and setting clear boundaries in my relationship and in my businesses,

but I was really just tap dancing around them.

That felt less risky to me.

I wanted change and I wanted my needs met, but I wasn't willing to

fully risk being abandoned or dismissed. So instead I abandon and dismissed myself.

This was a painfully familiar feeling as I felt at my

entire life. It left me feeling resentful, angry, and alone. Yet I couldn't get myself

to press unmute. So instead two and a half years of my life

passed me by until one day I had enough and ripped the duct tape off my mouth and

everything changed. This episode is likely going to be a turning

point for you, where you will say the thing that has been left unsaid.

You might have been hinting at it, inferring it, passively aggressive, mentioning it, or doing

other things.

You're going to speak up when normally you would say, oh, it's not worth it.

I don't want to rock the boat. You're going to say no instead of people pleasing and saying yes.

You're going to say yes to the things that you want and

take the risk to the things that you want to grow the thing, to have the thing, to

change your life and you're going to say no to settling for more of the same.

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