Hi welcome back to the personality hacker podcast my name is Joe Mark Witt and I'm

Antonio Dodge today we're continuing I guess an informal series about relationships

and what relationships mean around personality type and all that.

And today we want to talk about a concept that you actually brought up, which I thought would be a great conversation.

And do you want to go ahead and introduce that?

Sure.

I mean I could do it but I think you do it justice better.

Yeah it's this it's a concept called Imago relationships and it was originally introduced by Harville Hendricks in the book

Getting the Love You Want? That's what it's called. I think that's what's called.

Finding the Love You Want, finding the love you want, that's right.

We have, I have his book, Keeping the Love You Find.

That's the name of it, right?

Anyway.

I'm just sitting here letting you squirm.

I actually don't remember the names of either book.

I know that you're pretty close, so I think you're right, but.

I do know it's horrible, Hendricks, though.

It's on the other books for the other rooms,

so I can't just grab it and like verify.

Yeah, the point of the Amago relationship are basically what's going on is,

Amago is a, is it the Latin term for the word image and the concept is that we have an image in our

heads of what love looks like starting from the time that we're born based on our familiar

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