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Women of Impact

If A Man Is USING YOU, He Will Do These 7 Things! | Lisa Bilyeu

Women of Impact

Impact Theory

Society & Culture, Relationships, Education

4.8701 Ratings

🗓️ 27 July 2022

⏱️ 35 minutes

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Summary

When you are being used in a relationship, you may notice something feels off, and you may even pinpoint the things he’s doing to trigger you, but the scary truth is that you also may not notice these things. In this episode, we’re talking about red flags you cannot ignore, why it’s important to make accurate assessments of yourself first, and all the ways you’re going to be able to take back your power and never blindly hand it over again. If you’re dating, in a relationship, or debating if it’s time to go or not, this episode is for you. No one wants to be used in a relationship or taken advantage of wasting time with the wrong person. The key takeaway in this video is that taking back your power comes down to knowing that your ability to assess yourself, your feelings and the situations, decide for yourself, and honor your boundaries are all part of your superpower and badassery! Lisa Bilyeu is a successful entrepreneur, former housewife, all around badass and the best-selling author of Radical Confidence. She’s about empowering women and sharing practical tips that allow you to get tactical with how you level up and channel your inner badass to become unstoppable! Today is the day to make sure you're never used by anyone again and the day you step up and be the hero of your own life. SHOW NOTES: 0:00 | Introduction Don’t Let Him Use You 0:06 | He Avoids Future Conversations 5:35 | Not Introduced to Friends & Family 8:45 | No Consideration for Your Feelings 13:20 | All He Does is Take! 15:51 | Threatening to End the Relationship 20:05 | Doesn’t Talk About His Feelings 24:02 | He Never Apologizes Follow Lisa Bilyeu: Website: https://www.radicalconfidence.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu Are You Ready for EXTRA Impact? Calling all Badasses!! If you really want to level up your confidence game, check out the WOMEN OF IMPACT SUBSCRIPTION, specially designed to turn you into the badass you were born to be!  Women of EXTRA Impact Subscription Benefits: New episodes delivered ad-free Exclusive access to listen to Women of Impact round table discussions, weekly motivation, previously unreleased episodes, and more!  Subscriber-only access to an additional 4 podcasts with hundreds of archived Women of Impact episodes, meticulously curated into themed playlists, and updated weekly. Looking to boost your confidence? Check out the Get Confident playlist.  Want to repair and heal your relationships? Start with Love Lab.  Curious about your health? We’ve got you covered in Health Hub.  And of course, weekly boosts of mini-motivation from Lisa herself that'll have you strutting through life with your head held high on the Badass Boosts playlist  Don't settle for mediocrity when you can be extraordinary! Subscribe on Apple Podcasts: https://apple.co/457ebrP Subscribe on all other platforms (Google Podcasts, Spotify, Castro, Downcast, Overcast, Pocket Casts, Podcast Addict, Podcast Republic, Podkicker, and more) : https://impacttheorynetwork.supercast.com/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0

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0:51.2

Ladies, do not let him use you.

0:58.0

Take back your freaking power and identify these red flags. He keeps avoiding talking about your future together.

1:02.0

Alright guys, I don't know about you, but sometimes I, personally, can get a little sensitive to things.

1:07.0

So if it was me and I was really, really interested in this guy and I really wanted to talk about my future and he avoids it. I may take that personally.

1:15.6

Now the reason why I want to start here, the reason why I want to start with this is because the very first thing you need to do is just make sure you're not being too sensitive to it.

1:25.6

Because maybe you're like on edge every time you bring it up you're waiting

1:28.8

to see what he says but sometimes maybe his mindset isn't in that space so sometimes maybe it's on

1:34.8

soccer and so you ask him a question he's thinking about soccer and now he dismisses you and you make

1:39.6

that about you so what i would do is actually step number one is I would put my suspicion to the test.

1:47.0

Now guys, this is a big difference between actually putting someone to the test or putting yourself to the test.

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