Identity After Kids: It's Not a Power Struggle You Can Co-Exist

After Hours With Amanda

Education, Self-improvement

5 • 694 Ratings

🗓️ 8 September 2021

⏱️ 49 minutes

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Summary

In this episode, we break down the idea that we are not the person we cant to be because of our Tiny Humans. This idea that we want to go back to who we were before kids, that in some way that person was better. We get down to the mindset behind this and the paradigm shift we need.

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0:00.0	Okay, y'all, I didn't even do the intro on last week's episode. So we're going to start this off real professional.
0:08.1	You are going to have to have some grace with me today. I am currently, oh my gosh, I'm coping. I'm coping. And my
0:16.1	therapist would say, like, I'm trying, well, I dissociate. If you don't know what that is, it's when you like
0:20.9	remove yourself mentally from a situation. But it is the first day of school. And you know me,
0:26.7	I plan some podcast episodes ahead, but rarely do I ever plan podcast episodes ahead.
0:32.2	Because I want to speak from the heart to you. And speaking in the heart means me speaking in the moment.
0:38.8	Okay. And, oh, the intro. We didn't even do. Okay. Welcome to the after hours with Amanda
0:45.7	podcast. The podcast that's about parenting, but not just for parents. Okay. We'll try and keep it.
0:51.5	I mean, it's also about McDonald's Coke and the iced coffee that I'm
0:55.4	currently drowning my sorrows and thank God I have therapy tomorrow. Lord knows I will have a laundry
0:59.9	list of things to talk with her about since I haven't been in two weeks. She was on vacation.
1:04.9	We were getting ready for school. I don't take away the value of the therapy but if it's going to cause me
1:13.5	more stressed my therapist and i agree like carrie knows all right maybe we're just doing a phone
1:18.7	call maybe we're doing a text maybe we're doing a zoom maybe i've completely left the building
1:23.9	and i'll see you next week kind of thing but But it's the first day of school. And,
1:27.9	you know, it's hard because can I just be real with you for a moment? And first off, I want to
1:34.0	put a disclaimer. Massive disclaimer on this episode. I do not judge anybody's parenting.
1:39.3	I would not deign to believe in any world that I have any type of authority that says I'm right and you're wrong
1:46.0	in a variety of areas of life, but especially parenting because what works for me in my life
1:51.9	experience might not work for you because that's not how your experience was framed. Okay.
1:56.0	So let's just promise ourselves in this episode that we will not personally take on other people's
2:03.5	convictions or other people's needs or other people's non-needs, okay? We will not take away from
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