Hey, Hey, Waffle, gang. I do hope you are well. My name is Mark and today we're checking out some more relationship stories. And if you do love Reddit story, why not consider him that like, subscribe, maybe that notification bell too. Let's crack on with today's first story, which comes from Humble Newspaper 803, and asks, am I the

whole for disinviting my sick grandmother from my wedding?

I imagine I'll likely be verbally eviscerated by the internet masses, but I do have some explanation.

My grandmother is my only living grandparent, and she's my hero.

When I was a kid, she beat stage 4 lung cancer.

When I had my own less severe diagnosis of cancer, she was there for me, even more than my parents.

I hope people believe me when I say, this decision to exclude her from my wedding is not one

made lightly.

However, I genuinely think it to be for the best.

My fiancé and I are getting married in about eight months, being engaged for close to three

years.

We hadn't intended for such a long engagement, but it's where the dice fell.

Initially when planning the wedding, I absolutely wanted my grandmother there and sent her an invite.

But about a year ago, she had a massive stroke.

ETA, to make this absolutely clear, everything was planned and booked before she had the stroke.

She is 90 years old, and the family was kind of astonished.

She even made it.

However, she's been in really bad shape since then. On her good

days, she still needs a walker to get around, though oftentimes requires a wheelchair. Unfortunately,

our wedding takes place in an old historical location that is not wheelchair friendly. The ceremony

space is quite a walk across a field from the reception area.

All in all, not very suitable for my grandmother in a current state.

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