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I stepped out of grief -- by dancing with fire | Danielle Torley

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🗓️ 6 November 2020

⏱️ 13 minutes

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Summary

After losing her mother in a house fire when she was just six years old, Danielle Torley saw two paths before her: a life full of fear, or one that promised healing and recovery. In this inspiring talk, she describes how she turned her grief into beauty in a most unexpected way -- by dancing with fire.

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I'm Elise Hugh. You're listening to TED Talks Daily. Fire scared Danielle Torley for her entire life after a tragedy she survived as a small child. But she turned her greatest fear into a triumph and rush that she now performs for people all around the world. In her 2020 talk from

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TED at PMI, Torley shares how she healed from her past by exposing herself to actual flames.

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When I was six years old, our house caught fire and my mother died.

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It was a cold February night in Michigan.

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Our chimney had recently been fixed, so we had a warm fire going in the fireplace.

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My younger sister and I were sitting next to our dog and coloring with a brand new box of colored pencils

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when mom said it was time for bed.

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We'd planned to go up north that night

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for a weekend of snowmobiling and sledding, but it was already dark and snowing outside, so we

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decided to leave the next morning instead. We went upstairs, brushed our teeth, climbed into bed,

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my sister's room right next to the stairs, and mine at the far end of the hallway. Our parents tucked us in and kissed us goodnight, then left the door open just a crack

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and the hallway light on as it always was. In the middle of the night, I woke up, sweating,

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confused because I couldn't see that hallway light. I started shouting for my parents until

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finally I heard words that I'll

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never forget. Dave, it's a fire. We later found out that our fire from earlier had burned

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through an unrepaired crack in the chimney, causing the fireplace doors to explode and fire to just

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pour into the living room. I remember my mom running down to my sister's room, frantically searching for her and finally

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finding her on the floor.

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I crawled after her in my hands and knees, trying not to breathe in the smoke.

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I remember standing next to my sister's room, trying to turn on that hallway light, but it was already on.

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I just couldn't see it because the smoke was so thick.

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I remember feeling the heat of the fire on my skin and hearing the sound of it as it climbed up the stairs.

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