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first story. Much love guys. Now today's first story comes from the Am I the Arsul here subreddit from Practical Will 7046

and says, am I the asshole, but calling off my engagement because my ex-fiance invited my dad

to our wedding.

I 29 female met my ex 32 male in college. He knew all about my troubled relationship with my dad.

Growing up, my dad struggled with addiction, cheated on my mom and left us in debt.

I only learned about his emotional and physical abuse towards my mom and siblings when I was much older.

As the youngest, my memories are fuzzy so family

hid this from me, thinking it was best because they wanted me to have a good relationship with

him. My dad wasn't actively involved in my life and we didn't see each other often, even though

my mom letting come by whenever he wanted. He would promise to take me out on weekends,

but he'd never show up. When we did go out, he would yell at servers and threaten to beat

slash killed him. He'd race strangers and go 100 miles an hour with me in the car, and it'd always

criticized my mum to me. I have so many stories, but to extreme ones are the times he tackled

a boy my age for talking to me and started beating him. He left him bleeding on the floor

and dragged me to the car, crying and shaking. The other is the time he took me out for my 15th birthday,

like my actual birthday, and he abandoned me at the mall.

It was about three cities over from where I lived, and I didn't know what to do, so I decided

to try and take the bus home. I got lost and called my best friend. She and her older brother

went to pick me up. That was the last time I saw him. The crazy thing was that at the end of each visit,

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