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Coach Corey Wayne

I’m Stuck In The Fantasy Of A Past Relationship That Ended Years Ago

Coach Corey Wayne

Coach Corey Wayne

Society & Culture, Relationships

4.6532 Ratings

🗓️ 27 December 2024

⏱️ 26 minutes

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Join this channel to get access to exclusive members only videos, full viewer questions podcasts & The 3% Man & Mastering Yourself Study Group Podcasts with the girls where we discuss the content of both books in depth:https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCQTAVxA4dNBCoPdHhX9nnoQ/joinJoin Members Only On My Website. 7 day free trial. Save 25% when you choose an annual Membership plan. Cancel anytime:https://understandingrelationships.com/plansJoin Members Only on Spotify:https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/coachcoreywayne/subscribeWhat you should do if you’re stuck in the fantasy of a past relationship.In this video coaching newsletter I discuss an email from a viewer who is stuck in the fantasy of a past relationship that ended with his college girlfriend years ago. He moved away for a great career opportunity and she didn’t want to move away with him so they later broke up. He’s been obsessing about it for years but she has a boyfriend for 3 years now. She was recently in his city and they met up and kissed. She told him she still loved him. He hasn’t found anyone else and isn’t really looking because he’s stuck in the past.If you have not read my book, “How To Be A 3% Man” yet, that would be a good starting place for you. It is available in Kindle, iBook, Paperback, Hardcover or Audio Book format. If you don't have a Kindle device, you can download a free eReader app from Amazon so you can read my book on any laptop, desktop, smartphone or tablet device. Kindle $9.99, iBook $9.99, Paperback $29.99 or Hardcover 49.99. Audio Book is Free $0.00 with an Audible membership trial or buy it for $19.95. Here is the link to Audible to get the audiobook version:http://bit.ly/CCW3ManHere is the link to Amazon to purchase Kindle, Paperback or Hardcover version:http://amzn.to/1XKRtxdHere is the link to the iBookstore to purchase iBook version:https://geo.itunes.apple.com/us/book/how-to-be-3-man-winning-heart/id948035350?mt=11&uo=6&at=1l3vuUoHere is the link to the iTunes store to purchase the iTunes audio book version:https://geo.itunes.apple.com/us/audiobook/how-to-be-a-3-man-unabridged/id1106013146?at=1l3vuUo&mt=3You can get my second book, “Mastering Yourself, How To Align Your Life With Your True Calling & Reach Your Full Potential” which is also available in Kindle $9,99, iBook $9.99, Paperback $49.99, Hardcover $99.99 and Audio Book format $24.95. Audio Book is Free $0.00 with an Audible membership trial. Here is the link to Audible to get the audiobook version:http://bit.ly/CCWMYHere is the link to Amazon to purchase Kindle, Paperback or Hardcover version:https://amzn.to/2TQV2XoHere is the link to the iBookstore to purchase iBook version:https://geo.itunes.apple.com/us/book/mastering-yourself-how-to-align-your-life-your-true/id1353139487?mt=11&at=1l3vuUoHere is the link to the iTunes store to purchase the iTunes audio book version:https://geo.itunes.apple.com/us/audiobook/mastering-yourself-how-to-align-your-life-your-true/id1353594955?mt=3&at=1l3vuUoYou can get my third book, “Quotes, Ruminations & Contemplations” which is also available in Kindle $9,99, iBook $9.99, Paperback $49.99, Hardcover $99.99 and Audio Book format $24.95. Audio Book is Free $0.00 with an Audible membership trial. Here is the link to Audible to get the audiobook version:https://www.audible.com/pd/B0941XDDCJ/?source_code=AUDFPWS0223189MWT-BK-ACX0-256995&ref=acx_bty_BK_ACX0_256995_rh_usHere is the link to Amazon to purchase Kindle, Paperback or Hardcover version:https://amzn.to/33K8VwFHere is the link to the iBookstore to purchase iBook version:https://books.apple.com/us/book/quotes-ruminations-contemplations/id1563102111?itsct=books_box_link&itscg=30200&ct=books_quotes%2C_ruminations_%26_contemplatio&ls=1

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Hi, I'm Coach Corey Wayne, and this is my video coaching newsletter, and the topic of today's

0:35.5

newsletter is going to be, I'm stuck in the fantasy of a past

0:39.7

relationship that ended years ago well this is also kind of being known as stuck in a perspective

0:50.1

so this particular emailer he had a relationship with a college girlfriend that he had.

0:56.7

And then I guess around the time that he graduated, his family offered him a position that was too good to pass up.

1:04.4

But it's like a thousand miles away from where they lived.

1:09.1

And so he takes the job, the career opportunity, moves thousand miles away,

1:14.1

and for a period of time, he and his college girlfriend dig the long distance thing, but eventually

1:19.7

they broke up. She supposedly what he says was too close to her family to move away.

1:31.4

And so they broke up, but he's kind of been distraught over it ever since then.

1:34.0

And for the past three years, she's been, has a boyfriend.

1:36.1

She's in a relationship with somebody else.

1:47.6

And then apparently, and just recently, his now ex-college girlfriend actually was coming to visit and looks like she was in touch with one of his friends and so the friend arranged like a get-together and they hung out she basically

1:53.6

tells him that she still loved him he was one of the great loves of her life or whatever and then they

1:58.6

kissed keep mind she got a boyfriend now of three years so she's she's doing a little kissy poo with her ex-boyfriend. I'm sure her current

2:06.2

boyfriend wouldn't appreciate that too much. And he says he's dated and hooked up with other

2:13.2

women in the past, but he's still obsessing over.

2:23.6

And so part of what's going on here is he's not really paying attention to reality.

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