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Fierce Marriage

I Love You But I'm Not IN Love with You...? Understanding Love

Fierce Marriage

Ryan and Selena Frederick

Christianity, Religion & Spirituality

4.94.3K Ratings

🗓️ 24 March 2026

⏱️ 28 minutes

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Summary

Is it possible to fall out of love? Today we talk about the nature of love and the common lie that you can "Love someone but not BE in love with them."

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0:00.0

Drift happens over time, but not all drift is permanent.

0:03.1

You can go back to each other. You can rekindle whatever it was that has grown cold. You can begin to bring warmth to the hearth of your marriage. And it just takes some kindling. It takes some bringing sparks to that fire. That fire will come back. And now how do you go about doing that? You just got to talk. Have an honest, transparent, vulnerable talk. I think recognizing

0:22.2

that the Christian life is always going to be littered with hardship and trials. We're waiting

0:27.8

for that perfect time. It's never going to come. Perfect peaceful moment, problem free, no

0:33.3

responsibilities. Like, that's just not going to come in this world you will face trials of many

0:37.7

kinds but take heart our faith is in the lord i would say christian don't waste your time

0:42.8

Ryan selina yes i love you wanted me no you should say this you should say it Ryan. Selena. Yes.

0:54.6

I love you.

0:55.2

You wanted me.

0:56.0

No, you should say this.

0:57.1

You should say it.

0:58.5

What should I say?

0:59.5

What should I say?

1:00.2

I love you, but.

1:03.6

Oh, great.

1:04.8

I'm not in love with you.

1:07.4

That's a lie.

1:08.2

That's a lie.

1:08.8

So the title of this or the morning concept here is that idea, it's probably not very

1:16.0

prominent among our listeners by now because I think we've hopefully dispelled all of the

1:20.4

nonsense around this.

1:22.1

But the idea that I love you, but I'm not in love with you.

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