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I lost nine years of my life : Transgender to Transformed | Laura Perry Smalts shares her life-changing story with Billy Hallowell

Unbelievable?

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Christianity, Religion & Spirituality

4.62.3K Ratings

🗓️ 30 June 2023

⏱️ 53 minutes

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Summary

Even in a time of culture wars and controversy about everything, there are few subjects as difficult to discuss as transgender rights. In less than a decade the number of young people identifying as trans has exploded, and with it the number of arguments about the subject. In British schools nearly 80% of teachers report trans-identified or non-binary students in their classroom. Supporters say being trans is innate, like being gay, and that this is like the gay-rights movement of 30 years ago, with lots of trans kids coming out of the closet to be themselves. Critics say being trans is not innate and that many kids are identifying as the opposite sex because it is cool, and because they are being indoctrinated by a new ideology, fed to them on social media and by activist teachers. The debates have become most heated when it comes to actual medical transitioning. In all of the disagreement, what frequently gets lost is the need for compassion for anyone struggling with dysphoria. But how far should compassion go? Should it allow any teenager who says they are trans to medically transition? What about the increasing number of studies showing that many such kids have other serious mental-health issues? Laura Perry Smalts who was born female, and lived as a young man for almost 9 years. She took cross-sex hormones for years and had two major surgeries. She now regrets ever having done it, has detransitioned, and wants to warn others of the dangers. She is here to tell her story. https://www.amazon.co.uk/Transgender-Transformed-Story-Transition-Truly/dp/1933591307 This is a helpful article on the Living Out website on how to parent a child who is questioning their gender identity https://www.livingout.org/resources/articles/111/parenting-a-child-questioning-their-gender-identityThe Bayswater Support group helps parents whose children have some form of transgender of nonbinary identity https://www.bayswatersupport.org.ukA quick guide to the issue written for the Christian Medical Fellowship https://www.cmf.org.uk/resources/publications/content/?context=article&id=27357The Society for Evidence-based Gender Medicine https://segm.orgTransgender Trend campaign against medical interventions for gender-questioning children https://www.transgendertrend.comGenspect is an international coalition of professionals and others critical of transgender treatment for gender dysphoria https://genspect.orgThe Clinical Advisory Network on Sex and Gender https://can-sg.org/ • Subscribe to the Unbelievable? podcast: https://pod.link/267142101 • More shows, free eBook & newsletter: https://premierunbelievable.com • For live events: http://www.unbelievable.live • For online learning: https://www.premierunbelievable.com/training • Support us in the USA: http://www.premierinsight.org/unbelievableshow • Support us in the rest of the world: https://www.premierunbelievable.com/donate

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As I begin to cut off the relationship with my mom and my sister, it really made me unable

0:56.8

to relate to women at all, which led to further rejection and it became this snowball of more

1:03.6

and more rejection and feeling like I was bad, like I wasn't a good person, like I wasn't

1:08.8

worth people's time, I wasn't worth being loved, and that I should have been a boy.

1:17.2

Hello and welcome to Unbelievable, the show that aims to get Christians and non-Christians

1:21.6

thinking about the topics that really matter to all of us.

1:25.6

Today we are talking about another important topic and we would love to hear your thoughts

1:29.6

on this, so do get in touch by emailing unbelievable at premier.org.uk.

1:34.8

But for now, let's jump in on today's discussion.

1:40.6

Even in a time of culture wars and controversy about almost everything, there are few subjects

1:45.4

as difficult to discuss as transgender rights.

1:49.2

And less than a decade, the number of young people identifying as trans has exploded

1:53.8

and with it the number of arguments about the subject.

1:57.2

In British schools, nearly 80% of teachers report trans-identified or non-binary students

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