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My name is Mark and today we're checking out some more relationship stories.

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Let's crack on with today's first story, which comes from the True of My Chest subreddit, from No Cockroach

3567, who says, my husband has been lying to me about our finances, and we are messed

up.

The title is basically the story.

I am also to blame for this, I realize that.

We divided household responsibilities pretty evenly,

but we don't split every responsibility down the middle. And finances were his job. He's better at

them. I thought he was better at them. We are 50k in credit card debt. I did not know about this.

50K on a home equity loan. I did know about this.

Two months behind on our mortgage and severely behind on a car payment.

I quit my job when we decided to have my middle child three years ago.

Then we had our youngest a year ago.

I thought we were fine.

We should have been fine.

I don't understand what the F happened or why he waited

so long to tell me. I trusted him completely. I would never have believed this. I love him so

much. By all accounts, we had an ideal marriage or we did. I thought we did. I have no idea how we will

ever come back from this. It will take years to pay this off.

I'm in school full time, but we'll need to drop out because we can obviously no longer afford

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