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So I recently got engaged. My fiance and I are both 36 years old. We're looking to start a Brady Bunch. We've got five kids between 10 and 12, between us.

Oh, wow. Between 10 and 12, is that what you said? Yeah, I have twin sons who are 11, and she has a 10-year-old, 11-year-old, and 12-year-old.

Oh, my gosh. That's going to be a houseful. That's fun. So great. Yeah, it's been really fun. Yep. So the reason I'm calling is because we have a pretty large difference in assets. And I think based on your

advice, the advice would be that we should get a pre-nup. So I have roughly $12 million and she has

roughly $50,000. And so we started the process of looking into a pre-up, and it's been an emotional one.

And I totally understand why.

And I think especially, like, we went through a questionnaire talking together about it,

but then when we got the first draft, back from my lawyer, that's when she's really not

been feeling good about it.

And I understand the concern.

So, I mean,

she feels like I wouldn't be fully entering the marriage in the same way that she is,

because it feels like I'm holding assets, uh, like separately off to the side. Um,

and I'm sensitive to that and especially in some of the context of her, um, former

relationship. And so I'm just looking for maybe more clarity and

like what you guys would recommend. Oh, man, this is a hard one because it is, I think it is a

wise decision to do one. And I say that even more, I have a friend who's going

through not a great situation and she came in with a lot more. And now he's just, I mean, it's just

messy. It's messy, messy. And there's a level, again, you're not, you're hoping and praying,

obviously, that this is the one and that it's going to last a lifetime.

But as you guys have experienced, you know, there is a reality to all of this. And whenever

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