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I am just wondering how I can help my husband be healthier and have a healthier habit without him feeling like I'm judging him.

It's an interesting question and we'll dig into what's going on with him, but I guess what I would say is I don't think judgment is always a bad thing.

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course what's up well i am just wondering your perspective um of how I can help my husband be healthier and have

like healthier habits without him feeling like I'm judging him.

That's an interesting question.

And we'll dig into what's going on with him.

But I guess what I would say is I don't think judgment is always a bad thing I think judgment from a hierarchical position or something like I think condescension is is not good but somebody calling out truth and reality is a good thing. That just means

you love me and you care about me. You can do that in a way that's ugly and mean, but, man,

judgment with compassion is, it's accountability. It's awesome. It's a good thing. So tell me what's

going on with your husband.

Well, last couple years, and I'm not like more, I'm not concerned as far as like how much weight he's gained or like how he looks. Like that's not like my main issue. My main issue is just how it

affects his overall health, like how he feels about himself,

and then how he's able to, like, interact with, like, our kids.

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