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Am I the jerk for breaking up my engagement because my fiance isn't traditional enough?

This was originally posted on the 3rd of March 2024, just two weeks ago at the time of recording.

A little background.

I am a 26 year old woman and I come from a relatively traditional Asian family,

so sorry in advance for the bad English.

My father owns a rice wine brewery and my mother helps him with it.

Even though I said my family is pretty much conservative, from what I've seen growing up,

my father never told my mother to do all the chores and he helps her with them.

My father always says that he couldn't provide for the family alone and she has to work.

That's why he never expects her to do everything in the house.

Just like how they share the responsibilities to earn for ever expects her to do everything in the house.

Just like how they share the responsibilities

to earn for our family,

they also share responsibilities

taking care of the household.

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