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in bed with him all right i just can'tject, I can't relax in bed with him.

All right?

I just can't do it.

I can't relax in bed with him.

Dear Stephen Shirley, my husband drives me nuts in the bed, but not in a good way.

He's 72 and I'm 68 years old.

We have been married for 22 years and it's both of our second marriage.

He has asthma, so I give him a breathing treatment most nights, but that doesn't help his wheezing all

night. We have to keep the air down in our bedroom because if he gets hot, it gets worse.

I said all of that to say that we can't have sex without him getting hot and then the wheezing starts.

He's six feet seven and I'm five feet seven and our bed doesn't fit him and he's too cheap to get a king-sized bed.

So he usually, he's usually balled up next to me, or his feet hang off the sides or the bottom,

which pulls the cover off me.

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