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CHministries.org slash budget. Hello, I am hoping somebody can tell me how I can financially

exit my marriage. What does that mean financially, actually?

I have been married since 2001.

I am 50 years old and a stay-at-home mom.

My husband is in his mid-60s and is retired. He takes care of all the finances. Is that a nice way of saying

he controls the money? That it probably is a very nice way of saying it. I signed a prenuptial

agreement and I had no idea what that was.

And I don't have access to it.

I don't have access to anything that is beyond.

That's not accurate.

He might be controlling it, but you do have legal rights to see the pre-up that you sign because it's your pre-up too.

It is.

I don't have access to it. He carries a key to the filing cabinet, and it's on him 100% of the time.

Okay, you're in a very, you're in a very abusive situation, and you know this, right?

Yeah.

Okay.

And that's why I'm asking, what did you mean by financially exit as opposed to just exit?

I'd like to just exit the whole thing, but y'all are a financial show.

Yeah.

You've got to sit with an attorney. Yeah.

You got to sit down with the attorney. I've already done that. Okay. What the attorney say? They need all of that information. Say what now? The attorney needs that information.

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