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Emotional Badass

HSPs, People Pleasing & Melody Beattie's Impact

Emotional Badass

Nikki Eisenhauer

Health & Fitness, Mental Health, Education, Self-improvement

4.82.2K Ratings

🗓️ 22 February 2026

⏱️ 30 minutes

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Summary

Melody Beattie passed last year and I burst into tears on a livestream the moment I found out. She's been a spiritual mother to me, her books holding concepts patiently until I was awake enough. For HSPs, empaths, and recovering codependents and people-pleasers, this one matters. That sneaky bastard perfectionism will show up and expect us to fix all the things right now, yesterday even, and we don't have to pressurize-cook ourselves through healing that way. Gratitude turns what we have into enough and more, and for trauma survivors and sensitives whose nervous systems learned that life is war, her wisdom lands like a exhale: let go, let it be, let it happen. Worth is unchanging from the day you were born. Light and love. RESOURCES: WORK WITH NIKKI 1:1 30 DAYS TO PEACE COURSE PATREON COMMUNITY INTRO TO BOUNDARIES THE BOUNDARIES INTENSIVE BOOK CLUB NARCISSIST ABUSE RECOVERY WORKSHOP THE FREE MORNING ROUTINE WEEKLY NEWSLETTER SIGNUP THE PATTERNSCAPES WELLNESS DECK BRAIN FM: CODE: emotionalbadass for 20% off your membership FOLLOW US: YouTube Instagram Facebook TikTok Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0

So on gratitude, Ms. Melody Beatty says, gratitude unlocks the fullness of life. It turns what we have

0:10.7

into enough and more. Really take this in. In the West, we have such a consumerist culture and

0:18.6

society. More, more, more. Never good enough. Interestingly,

0:23.6

never good enough is also one of the narcissistic dynamics, isn't it? And if we've grown up

0:28.3

underneath it, if we've nursed some of that dysfunction that brings us to an emotional disturbance

0:34.9

of never feeling good enough for like what we have is enough. This is the muscle

0:40.7

we can flex. To bring more peace, as she says, gratitude unlocks the fullness of life. I don't want my

0:48.6

life to feel thin, depleted, fragile, precarious. I want it to feel full of life. If gratitude can do that for me,

0:58.9

why the hell wouldn't I practice it every which way I can? Hello, welcome to the show.

1:05.8

This is Emotional Badass where a Moxie meets Mindful. I'm your host, Nikki Eisenhower,

1:10.6

life coach and psychotherapist.

1:12.5

And on today's episode, I'm discussing highly sensitive people, people pleasing, and we are

1:18.3

honoring Melody Beatty. All right, y'all, a little housekeeping before we get into it.

1:26.6

If you have been on my waiting list, please check your emails, check your spam folders.

1:32.3

Every year, if I open to new clients, we get emails after I'm full saying, oh my goodness, I've been on your waiting list.

1:39.3

Do you ever open it and they've just missed the email?

1:42.3

So if you're interested in working with me, now is the time.

1:44.6

Come to Emotionalbadass.com slash coaching. Housekeeping item number two, our book by book club is open.

1:52.1

If you're interested in hanging out with some other highly sensitive people, end with me. Come find that at

1:58.1

Emotionalbadass.com slash book club. All right, on to the show.

2:03.7

Melody Beatty is the woman that I think of as the mother of codependency. Her book,

2:08.8

Codependent No More, was written in 1986 when I was six years old. It's amazing how applicable

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