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🗓️ 9 July 2020
⏱️ 51 minutes
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In this episode of Bulletproof Radio, Dan Brown, Ph.D., is back to discuss the essentials of attachment and ways to identify your sense of self. You’ll learn about one Attachment Project, two types of relationship dysfunction, three versions of insecure attachment, four types of attachment, and five great functions of attachment. As a special bonus, Dr. Brown also takes listeners through a guided self-visualization during the show.
This is the second of a two-part series. Here’s the first in case you missed it: HOW EARLY CHILDHOOD ATTACHMENT SETS YOUR RELATIONSHIP PATTERNS – DANIEL P. BROWN, PH.D., WITH DAVE ASPREY – #718.
Dr. Brown has spent nearly 40 years of his career at Harvard University Medical School where he’s an Associate Clinical Professor of Psychology and teaches hypnotherapy. He’s also a Buddhist Meditation Master, and seamlessly blends Eastern and Western schools of thought.
Attachment lays the foundation for your sense of self and that informs your future relationships. “Relationships are purposeful. We select unconsciously to play out the same old conflict over and over again rather than working it out,” says Dr. Brown.
But you can change the pattern.
Self-development “starts with self-definition, knowing who you are, knowing what qualities represent the best self,” Dr. Brown says. “Then the next thing is what's called self-agency. What makes you feel like you have an impact on the environment around you, the world around you, in general. And then more specifically, that you have an impact on relationships with others. You're actually eliciting the kind of responses you want in relationship with others. So that's called self-agency. And the third is self-esteem, feeling good about yourself.”
This episode gives you helpful techniques and tools. You’ll also get tips on what to look for in a therapist and find out why it’s important to choose someone who will move beyond talk therapy.
Enjoy the show! And get more resources at https://blog.daveasprey.com/category/podcasts/
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| 0:00.0 | Boatproof Radio, a state of high performance. |
| 0:06.0 | You're listening to Bulletproof Radio with Dave Asprey. |
| 0:13.3 | This is part two of a really impactful, some amazing episode series that I'm just so |
| 0:21.5 | pleased to be able to do. |
| 0:23.6 | This is with Dan Brown and he's the author of 20 or books. |
| 0:28.7 | He's actually studied molecular biology, religion, psychology, and he's been on the faculty |
| 0:34.4 | of Harvard for 40 years as an associate clinical professor of psychology and he teaches hypnotherapy |
| 0:42.7 | and has for many years. |
| 0:44.6 | Along with multiple languages, Buddhist meditation master, translated original texts, and one |
| 0:51.4 | of the most amazing people that you've probably heard on the show, as well as just a master |
| 0:57.4 | of how we get to be who we are and the things that are going on that we don't know about. |
| 1:01.6 | These are the things that are likely to stop you from being Bulletproof, but there are |
| 1:04.8 | things you might not even see until so much time is a light on them for you. |
| 1:09.6 | Dan has spent a lot of his life creating that kind of light. |
| 1:13.0 | Dan, welcome back to the show. |
| 1:14.8 | Thanks for having me back. |
| 1:15.8 | Pleasure to be here. |
| 1:17.6 | We're going to talk in this episode about some of the things we just couldn't fit in |
| 1:20.8 | the first episode and you talk about relational maps, about the ways people connect with each |
| 1:27.8 | other. |
| 1:28.8 | I'm going to go deeper with you on that. |
| 1:30.7 | What is a relational map? |
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