How We Found Sexual Satisfaction with Different Sex Drives | Relationship Theory
Women of Impact
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4.8 • 701 Ratings
🗓️ 29 July 2022
⏱️ 38 minutes
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Summary
Dealing with mismatched sex drives can be horrifying, frustrating and a host of other undesired emotions for both partners. How do you find compromise when one partner is in the mood every day, any time ready to go, and the other partner could check in once or twice a week and be perfectly satisfied? In this episode, Tom & Lisa break down advice, solutions, and examples from their own relationship for how to deal with mismatched libidos. They discuss everything from frequency, porn, and orgasms all the way to being absolutely transparent about just wanting to be desired.
SHOW NOTES:
Neurochemical Sex Drive | Understanding frequency urges are related to hormones [1:17]
Solution | Dealing with high sex drive and what it means to accommodate a partner [2:53]
Sexually Satisfied | Finding compromise to satisfy each other for mutual benefit [5:02]
Orgasmic Pull | Considering what your partner wants and the bond of orgasm [8:03]
Foreplay | Getting her in the mood begins outside of the bedroom [10:58]
Porn | How viewing porn and received with resistance from some parters as bad [13:22]
Okay To Ask | How Tom & Lisa have agreed it’s okay to ask and it’s okay to say no [16:29]
Open Dialogue | When there is a reason for concern having open communication [19:00]
Desirable | Real talk with Tom & Lisa about changing sex drives and being desirable [21:06]
Men Vs. Women | Tom on the relation between feeling connected, sex, and erection [25:43]
Checking In | Lisa’s advice for regular check-ins with each other about sex and more [27:35]
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| 0:51.5 | slash setup what up guys this is lisa billU and welcome to another episode of relationship theory on |
| 0:57.9 | Women of Impact and today it's a juicy one, guys. |
| 1:00.7 | Today it's a juicy one. |
| 1:02.7 | Me and the hubby are actually talking about surprise, surprise, mismatched libidoes and it may be |
| 1:08.0 | another surprise that he happens to have more of a higher sex drive than I do. |
| 1:12.6 | Now I don't know about you guys, I don't know if that's a situation with you or if it's flipped, |
| 1:16.6 | but either way, my hubby and I talk no BS on how we actually handle having different libido's, |
| 1:22.6 | how when maybe he wants sex more than I do, how we actually navigate, how we communicate, how we |
| 1:27.9 | discuss this without either of us feeling badly. |
| 1:31.5 | Because that's the key. |
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