How to Talk With Kids To Build Motivation, Stress Tolerance, and Happiness with Ned Johnson • 207
Mind Love™ • Consciousness, Spirituality, and Science for Awakening
Melissa Monte | Conscious Coach
4.9 • 906 Ratings
🗓️ 9 November 2021
⏱️ 65 minutes
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Summary
We will learn:
- Why autonomy is critical for kids and how to help them develop it.
- A 4-step process for dealing with kids emotions in a productive way.
- How to help kids develop motivation beyond reward-based activities.
November is parents month! Whether you have your own kids or not, this month will help you understand the children in your life as well as learn to deal with your own inner child better!
Communication can be difficult with children. When they’re young, they might not comprehend enough language to grasp what you mean. And even when they do have the words, they might not be emotionally ready for the message.
Children’s brains work differently, and those brains are not fully developed until they are in their 30s. So communicating with them means meeting them where they are. We can also help them to develop their logic centers by helping them engage that part of the brain.
So that’s what we’re talking about today. Our guest is Ned Johnson. He is the founder of PrepMatters and the coauthor of "The Self-Driven Child" and a new book "What Do You Say: How to Talk With Kids To Build Motivation, Stress Tolerance, and a Happy Home."
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| 0:00.0 | Mom, Dad, can we work around? |
| 0:03.0 | James, come rounds. |
| 0:04.0 | Can we have Tykawai? |
| 0:05.0 | Your maker. |
| 0:06.0 | We need speakers. |
| 0:07.0 | Pastors. |
| 0:08.0 | He's broken it. |
| 0:09.0 | She's crying. |
| 0:10.0 | Where's the football? |
| 0:12.0 | Can we watch cartoons? |
| 0:13.9 | Need a crowd pleaser? |
| 0:15.0 | Let's watch something with planets. |
| 0:16.8 | A musical. |
| 0:18.0 | cartoons. |
| 0:18.7 | The match. |
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| 0:30.0 | Welcome to Mind Love, episode 2007. |
| 0:33.0 | Today's episode is all about how to talk with kids to build motivation, stress tolerance, and happiness. |
| 0:39.0 | A lot of the communication that we do with children and really with anyone is about trying |
| 0:44.8 | to change them, change the outcome, change the problem that they have, which means that we're |
| 0:49.7 | trying to exert control over them or of the situation. |
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