How to Stop Overvaluing People Who Undervalue You with Matthew Hussey
Girls Gotta Eat
Ashley Hesseltine
4.6 • 29.2K Ratings
🗓️ 29 April 2024
⏱️ 108 minutes
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Summary
We are so excited to have Matthew Hussey back, fresh off the release of his amazing new book Love Life, to talk about raising your standards and finding love. He validates the stress (and often sadness) around finding a partner in the first place and why it’s hard to “just relax,” and then we discuss why you may need to fight against your own instincts when dating. Matthew breaks down how to raise your standards, recognize intention vs. attention, stop overvaluing the wrong people, and let go of “unhatched eggs.” He also opens about his marriage and how, at the beginning of the relationship, his wife lowered the stakes while raising the standard. Lastly, we discuss finding the strength to leave an unhealthy relationship. Before Matthew joins us, we’re talking about nudes, awkward customer service interactions, the plane window shade debate, and BOOTH BOYFRIENDS. Enjoy!
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| 0:00.0 | For most people one of their greatest goals or dreams in life is to find love. |
| 0:05.2 | It's like the worst kept secret in the world that this is the thing that we all really, really want. I'm not just. |
| 0:25.0 | Hi guys. Hi guys. |
| 0:27.0 | Hi guys. |
| 0:28.0 | Welcome back to another episode of girls gotta eat. |
| 0:30.0 | Welcome back. |
| 0:31.0 | Do you know that I like laid in bed the other day, I think about how you got to say at that one time? |
| 0:34.8 | What recently? |
| 0:35.8 | I was like, I can't believe what do people like it more? |
| 0:39.4 | You know, it didn't even register with me. |
| 0:41.5 | It's keeping you up at night. Yeah, really I've been thinking about it. |
| 0:44.3 | This is also the first time I'm wearing a dress to record in six and a half years. |
| 0:48.4 | Oh my God. First time my just pussies out. A dress? Crazy right? And it's not even like what do you |
| 0:54.2 | wearing under there? Underwear. Pannies. Okay. And speaking of clothing I'm |
| 0:58.0 | obsessed with your shoes today. Thank you so much because they're brand new they're |
| 1:01.0 | fresh. I'm glad because this is a white rug and I saw she's in it I was like oh my |
| 1:04.7 | God be cool be cool be cool well yeah so these are my brand new air maxes I |
| 1:08.8 | were air maxes in high school I love them so I was like I want to get a pair |
| 1:11.5 | air maxes and you know |
| 1:13.6 | Sparkly is such a sneaker guy and like he's bought me sneakers and like we're like |
| 1:17.8 | a sneaker couple and so I told him that I got these air maxes and he was like you |
| 1:22.0 | know send me a pick like wearing nothing but the air maxes and he was like you know send me a pick like wearing nothing but |
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