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U Up?

How to Stop Comparing Your Relationship to Everyone Else's

U Up?

Betches

Relationships, Sexuality, Comedy, Society & Culture, Health & Fitness

4.714.8K Ratings

🗓️ 17 July 2019

⏱️ 75 minutes

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Summary

The J’s kick off the show with a conversation about Jared’s trip to Napa and how hard it is to fulfill your partner’s expectations. Is everyone just comparing their own relationship to the people around them? At 18:50 a listener writes in to ask what your drink order says about you. If someone cares about what you drink, should you second guess dating them? At 28:42 the Awkward Sexual Encounter involves a towel and a weird habit in the middle of the night. At 43:40 another listener asks if for advice after messing up his vacation plans with his girlfriend. Is she the one being unreasonable, or should he have planned ahead? At 1:00:20 they give some advice to an emailer who’s in a relationship with someone that never wants to sleep over. Is she putting too much pressure on him to live up to the standard of her former relationship? They finish the show with a round of Red Flag or Deal Breaker and a very weird Would You Rather. The U Up? LIVE tour is coming to a city near you! Get your tickets before they sell out by going to Betches.co/uuptour   Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcript

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0:00.0

Hello and welcome to the U.A. podcast. I'm Jared free and I'm Jordana Abraham.

0:10.3

It is so good to be back here with you, Jordana.

0:13.2

It's so great. How's your summer going?

0:14.7

The summer is going.

0:15.9

So you were just in in Napa.

0:18.0

I went to Napa, baby. I did. I sift the wine. I tasted the tomatoes. There's no way

0:25.6

to sound like a normal person after being in Napa.

0:29.4

Were you super drunk? I went and I got super drunk very easily.

0:33.2

Oh really? What was it? It's because they give you those small tastes.

0:38.0

But they're like kind of...

0:39.3

And then you just keep going.

0:40.5

Yeah. They creep up on you. I think they're higher alcohol percent than I'm used to

0:44.6

or something.

0:45.6

Wine in general. You ever see those wine cans they have now?

0:48.9

Yeah.

0:49.9

And they're like, they're like, yeah, have a can of wine. It's like, oh, that's a half

0:53.7

of a bottle? Basically.

0:55.5

And I didn't even know that like to me, I'm like, chugging a can as if this is a normal

1:00.7

thing.

1:01.7

It's like, no, you're drinking, you know, you're drinking apple juice concentrate.

1:05.5

Exactly.

1:06.5

So I had a good time. When did you go?

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