Ladies, if a man is trying to manipulate you, it means he can't possibly love you.

Because true love really isn't about control.

It's about collaboration.

It's about two people being on the same team, partnering together, working towards a common

goal.

So that begs the question of what is manipulation in relationships?

Ultimately, it's about power.

It's about the ability to control another person's behavior,

what it is that you're doing, or your emotions, what it is that you're feeling. And when it's really

toxic manipulation, typically this control only benefits the manipulator. It only benefits

the person who has all the control, rather than benefiting both people. My name's Adam LaDolcha. I'm an

executive love coach and the founder of love strategies and we've worked with tens of thousands of

women to get out there and attract long-lasting love. And from time to time when clients are getting

out there and meeting new guys, they will come across these types of guys who guilt-trip them

as much as possible to get what it is that

they want.

They'll love bomb and just like lay it on so thick.

You're the most beautiful woman in the whole world.

I can't believe how special our connection is.

Yada, yada, yada.

And they'll just want to do anything possible to control the woman throughout the process.

And even if you're a very successful woman

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