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How To! with Mike Pesca

How To Steal Back Your Identity

How To! with Mike Pesca

Peach Fish Projects

Education, How To

4.32K Ratings

🗓️ 2 February 2021

⏱️ 27 minutes

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Summary

Ever since Casey's husband had his identity stolen, Casey hasn't been able to relax. She spends late nights and weekends obsessively checking their family bank accounts and scouring the web for information on the thieves who live just 15 minutes from her house. The police told Casey that an arrest is unlikely, so how can she find closure and move on with her life? On this episode of How To!, we bring on Abby Ellin, journalist and the author of Duped, who experienced a personal betrayal of her own—almost marrying a con man. Abby shares what she learned about getting over a breach of trust when there's no resolution in sight. The bottom line: You have to create your own kind of closure. Don't let the thief steal any more of your time.

If you liked this episode, check out "How To Get Away With Murder."

Do you have a seemingly impossible problem? Send us a note at howto@slate.com or leave us a voicemail at 646-495-4001 and we might have you on the show.

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0:00.0

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0:30.3

I was engaged to a guy who turned out to be a pathological liar and went to jail. He had been

0:36.6

engaged to another woman while he was engaged

0:38.3

to me. He was a doctor in the military. He deceived people there. So he was duping people

0:42.7

and stealing the identities of people left and right. And that's when I thought, this guy's

0:46.6

nuts. He's insane. And he's trying to make me even, you know, more insane and it's not going to

0:51.5

happen. Welcome to how to. I'm David Epstein.

0:57.8

Have you ever had your identity stolen?

1:00.9

Unfortunately, the odds are that even if you haven't, someone you know has.

1:05.1

Someone in America falls prey to identity theft every two seconds.

1:09.8

And now with the pandemic putting so many people in financially

1:12.5

desperate situations, cybercrooks have been running rampant. Now, a lot of identity theft is

1:18.5

really just an inconvenience. Maybe you have to freeze a credit card, change a password,

1:23.0

but for our listener this week, it has completely upended her life. Meet Casey from Texas.

1:29.3

That's not her real name, and soon you'll understand why.

1:32.9

My husband was a recent victim of identity theft.

1:36.6

His social security number was compromised,

1:39.0

and we have been working on trying to unravel all of that.

1:44.4

It all started in September when Casey and her husband got a letter from their bank about a

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