How To! | Let Go of ADHD Shame

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🗓️ 5 August 2025

⏱️ 47 minutes

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Summary

Jessi navigates life with ADHD using a complex web of coping strategies. She used to strive for absolute perfection, but feels overwhelming guilt when she forgets something or loses focus at work or at home. On this episode, How To! co-host Carvell Wallace introduces Jessi to Dr. Sarah Wheeler, an educational psychologist who specializes in ADHD. Dr. Wheeler shares her own experience with ADHD and helps Jessi chart a sustainable path forward to self-acceptance, minus the anxiety and shame. Dr. Wheeler’s Resources and Recommendations Sarah’s ADHD story Sarah’s Substack and podcast More about Sarah and her work Joan Wilder’s site Help for Women with ADHD Salif Muhamane’s Ted Talk, “ADHD Sucks, But Not Really” Kate Weber’s Women & ADHD podcast You’ve Always Been This Way: “Hello, I’m New Here,” by McSweeney’s columnist Taylor Harris Check out: How To Navigate Adult Autism and our discussion of ADHD and organizing in How To Do Housework (and Not Hate It) How can How To! help you?? Send us a note at [email protected] or leave us a voicemail at 646-495-4001 and we might have you on the show. Subscribe for free on Apple, Spotify or wherever you listen. The show is produced by Rosemary Belson, with Kevin Bendis and Sophie Summergrad. Our technical director is Merritt Jacob and our supervising producer is Joel Meyer. Get more of How To! with Slate Plus! Join for exclusive bonus episodes of How To! and ad-free listening on all your favorite Slate podcasts. Subscribe from the How To! show page on Apple Podcasts or Spotify. Or, visit slate.com/howtoplus for access wherever you listen. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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1:00.0	I recently heard Amy Poller say that either you're annoying or boring.
1:04.9	You have to pick one, and I fully think I fall into the annoying camp rather than the morning.
1:13.9	Welcome to how to, where we welcome you no matter which camp you fall into.
1:18.3	You know, each week on the show, we talk with the listener about something they're struggling to navigate,
1:22.7	and we bring in an expert with personal experience to give them guidance.
1:26.9	I'm Carveau Wallace. And Amy
1:29.5	Polar aside, if we were to turn back the clock to a young Jesse 30 years ago, I don't
1:34.3	think we'd find a kid who was annoying, excited, maybe, excellent student, absolutely,
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