Hey everyone, welcome back to Jillian on Love. Today is a very special and unique episode.

You are actually going to watch me and listen to me coach someone who comes on the show because she has just left her husband

and she's really regretting it. She's wondering if she has made the completely wrong decision.

And so what you will notice in my conversation with her is that she comes to me with all

her reasons why she has decided to separate from her husband. But there was something inside of me that

just knew that the reason she was giving were not the actual reasons why she left.

And if they were, they were not, in a way, good enough reasons, quite frankly, to leave her

husband, who's also the father of their children.

But as I asked more questions and as she became more comfortable, she started to release certain layers

that were protecting her from not just telling the truth, but actually facing the truth. Because

that's the thing. We will suppress a lot of hard things so that we don't have to look at it.

And when it finally started to come out, why she no longer felt attracted to her husband

and no longer felt like she wanted to be with him in any capacity.

Then we started to see what was really going on.

And what you're going to take away from this episode is how easy it is for us, especially women, to suppress their truth and to not actually

have hard conversations where we are advocating for ourselves in a relationship. You're going to

see how something very specific happened in their relationship that I believe

led to their rupture.

And this is why hard conversations and speaking up for ourselves is so important.

But often we don't do that because we suppress it and our

subconscious hides it almost from us. And then we think, oh, I have to get out of this. But we don't

really tell ourselves or tell the other person the real reason why. So I think you're going to get a lot

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