How to Have the Sex Life You Want feat. Psychotherapist Vanessa Marin

Girls Gotta Eat

Ashley Hesseltine

Relationships, Society & Culture, Dating, Comedy, Sex, 977170

4.6 • 29.2K Ratings

🗓️ 21 November 2022

⏱️ 99 minutes

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Summary

We could not love this episode more, and are so happy for you to hear our conversation with sex therapist Vanessa Marin about communication in your sex life. She explains how to bring up a sexual slump or frustrations in your relationship with the exact language to use and type of conversations to have, how to tell your partner to stop doing something you don't like and start doing what you do like, techniques for spanking and choking and how to get your partner to do these things the way you want it (and vice versa), the best way to 69, and more. Before Vanessa joins us, we're chatting about Ashley's unexpected erotic encounter and Rayna's secret dream job, and discussing those feelings of "all my friends are married" that can creep in especially during the holidays. Enjoy!

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Transcript

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0:00.0	Choking a lot of people underestimate how gently you can do it with spanking.
0:03.7	A lot of people think that you should go soft.
0:06.5	No, we know.
0:07.5	Also, I can't tell you how many times I've been soft to be spanked.
0:10.9	It really gives me the egg.
0:13.9	Oh my god!
0:28.9	Hi guys!
0:29.9	Hi guys!
0:30.9	Welcome back to another episode of Girls Gotta Eat!
0:32.9	Welcome back!
0:33.9	We literally just did this challenge.
0:35.9	We were below the line and we had to get above the line.
0:39.9	I was in the middle of a story and I was like, you hate this.
0:43.9	We just recorded for 20 minutes and I was like, we have to stop.
0:47.9	It's not hitting. It's not right.
0:49.9	We were below the line.
0:50.9	I feel like I tried to help and you're like, no.
0:52.9	I'm like, we can do tomorrow.
0:53.9	No, I'm like, we can do Thursday.
0:54.9	No!
0:55.9	I guess we're doing it now.
0:57.9	Again, we talked about this last week.
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