How to Have Healthy Conflict with Amanda Ripley

We Can Do Hard Things

Treat Media and Glennon Doyle

Society & Culture, Relationships, Education, Self-improvement

4.8 • 41.1K Ratings

🗓️ 3 October 2024

⏱️ 59 minutes

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351. How to Have *Healthy* Conflict with Amanda Ripley Conflict expert and investigative journalist, Amanda Ripley, is back to give us a conflict resolution 101 guide and delve into some real-life examples from Abby and Glennon’s relationship. Discover: -The best way to diffuse a high-conflict person from going further; -The binary thinking that makes fighting with a spouse feel so painful–plus, the antidote; -How to disagree while still holding someone else’s perspective; and -Why it’s important to know your shame responses in order to have better conflicts. For the first part of our conversation, check out Episode 330 Handling Conflict Right with Amanda Ripley. About Amanda: Amanda Ripley is an investigative journalist and author. Her most recent book is High Conflict, which chronicles how people get trapped by conflicts of all kinds—and how they get out. Her previous books include The Unthinkable, and The Smartest Kids in the World, a New York Times bestseller which was also turned into a documentary film. IG: @ripleywriter @thegoodconflict To learn more about listener data and our privacy practices visit: https://www.audacyinc.com/privacy-policy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit https://podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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0:58.0	Terms and conditions apply, see M&M's website for more details. Welcome to We Can Do Hard Things. So here's what we're doing today. We jumped in to
1:19.3	this conversation about conflict with Amanda Ripley, who is freaking amazing, and we got so
1:26.8	excited to talk to her that we felt like we did this deep dive into the ocean of
1:31.8	conflict and forgot to do any of the basics. Okay? So we asked
1:37.6	Amanda to come back to talk to us about like an introductory conversation to conflict because we felt like the
1:47.1	conversation we had was so important that we needed to set a foundation first.
1:52.1	So Amanda, thank you for coming back.
1:54.0	Amanda Ripley is an investigative journalist and author. Her most recent book is
1:58.4	high conflict, which chronicles how people get trapped by conflicts of all kinds and how they get out.
2:05.1	Her previous books included The Unthinkable and the Smartest Kids in the World, a New York
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