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The Jefferson Fisher Podcast

How to Handle People Who Dominate Conversations

The Jefferson Fisher Podcast

Civility Media

Relationships, Society & Culture, Self-improvement, Education

5 • 5.8K Ratings

🗓️ 10 December 2024

⏱️ 18 minutes

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Summary

You’re in a conversation, and someone turns it into their personal monologue. They just keep talking and talking—totally dominating the conversation. It’s frustrating. But you don’t have to sit through it. In this episode, I’m sharing 3 ways to handle people who dominate conversations. You’ll learn how to interrupt confidently, redirect the conversation, and set clear boundaries to protect your time and energy. These strategies will help you take charge and create space for everyone to be heard. Like what you hear? Don’t forget to subscribe and leave a 5-star review! Pre-order my new book, The Next Conversation, today!  Suggest a topic or ask a question for me to answer on the show!  Want a FREE communication tip each week? Click here to join my newsletter.  Watch my podcast on YouTube  Follow me on Instagram  Follow me on LinkedIn Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0

Now we all know people that no matter the conversation, they always find a way to talk about themselves.

0:05.6

And even if it's not about themselves, it always seems to be their voice that takes up the entire conversation.

0:11.7

On today's episode, we're discussing how to handle people who dominate conversations.

0:17.0

Welcome to the Jefferson Fisher podcast, where I'm on a mission to make your next conversation the one that changes everything.

0:24.1

If you enjoy learning tools to improve your communication, I'm going to ask you to follow this podcast.

0:29.0

And if you would, please leave a review.

0:31.4

If you have a suggestion for any kind of topic that you'd like to see covered, just throw it in the comments and I'll be sure to read it.

0:37.1

I also want to let you know that my new book, The Next Conversation, is officially out for

0:41.9

pre-order and you can find links down there in the show notes.

0:45.2

When it comes to somebody dominating a conversation, and not in the good way, as in,

0:49.9

they're not letting anybody else speak.

0:51.9

They're the ones always having to hear their own voice.

0:54.9

There's some things I need you to do. Number one, interrupt them. You interrupt that person. Now,

0:59.3

I know it doesn't sound like me to suggest that, but it's true because if they're not going to

1:04.7

respect your time, then you have to do it. And there's a particular way I want you to do that. You

1:10.3

interrupt them by using

1:11.7

their name. You start low and then you go higher because people listen to their name. Their name

1:18.2

gets their attention. It's the best word that can ever hear is their name. So if I were to hear you

1:24.8

and I or somebody was listening to me and I just said hey Jefferson Jefferson Jefferson

1:30.1

you say it as often and as loud as you need to because it will eventually make them stop

1:35.2

number two when they do stop I want you to filter and pass it here's what I mean filter as in

1:41.4

you're going to summarize what they just said very quickly and then pass it to

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