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Assalamu alaykum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh

Bismillahirrahmanirrahim wa rahmatullahi wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh

Bismillahirrahim wa rahmatullahi wa rahmatullahi wa rahmatullahi wa aleyhi wa a'zuhabiha ji main

My brothers, my sisters, parents play a big role in the habits that are developed by their children

Wa yan sha unashi ul fityanim inna awfi'na aala makana awwada hu Abu

A young person who is growing up develops the habits that his father has inculcated in him

That which his father got him used to

This happens in most cases especially where the father is playing a role in the lives of the children

So these habits from a very young age you won't pick it up

Your child might not pick it up but people around will say you're just like your father

People will say the way you speak you sound like your father

Or in the case of the absence of the father for one reason or another

That child will pick up the habits of those whom the child grew up around

So if you have your mother sometimes you might have a brother who's a little bit older

Or a relative and uncle and aunt someone and thereafter what would happen is as you choose the schools for the children

The children begin to pick up dialect, accents, words, be they good words or bad words from the schools

Because of interaction

This is why Islam has given utmost importance to the issue of company

Make sure from a young age when you have the ability to choose where your child should be

And whom the child will interact with you ensure you've placed them in the custodian ship or the guardianship

The mentorship, the tutelage of someone who you are proud of in their ways and habits and so on

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