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How to Foster Healthy Conflict

DarrenDaily On-Demand

Darren Hardy LLC

Entrepreneurship, Careers, Business

4.91.8K Ratings

🗓️ 7 February 2024

⏱️ 6 minutes

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Summary

In an intense match that could have erupted into chaos, Steve Horrigan exemplified masterful conflict management, turning potential discord into a symphony of brilliant hockey. Discover how Darren Hardy applies these lessons to foster vigorous debate and aggressive accountability within teams, driving toward excellence.

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0:00.0

Welcome to Darren Daily on demand, your most trusted resource to help you become better every day.

0:07.0

Here's your success mentor Darren Hardy. Steve Horrigan is a legendary field hockey umpire for the Olympics, the World Cup, and

0:19.5

NCAA.

0:20.5

He told a story about one of the most memorable games from his decades in the sport.

0:24.6

But first, if you're not familiar with field hockey, it's ice hockey, but without ice.

0:29.2

It's mixed with a little soccer, but using sticks instead of feet. You add in a dash of lacrosse but

0:34.8

no throwing stuff. You have to just whack it along with a hockey stick. So that's field hockey.

0:40.0

In other words, it's hockey but on grass, or soccer but with sticks.

0:44.0

I think you kid it.

0:45.0

It was the final day of a six-nation tournament leading up to the 1996 Summer Olympics.

0:49.5

These players were about to represent their country in front of the world.

0:52.6

So emotions were running high in both teams, India and Pakistan.

0:56.9

Steve is the lead umpire, the keeper and enforcer of the rules.

1:00.2

Steve said, when they play hockey,

1:01.9

there can be lots of conflicts, and it can be very difficult to manage

1:05.6

or they can play beautiful hockey and it is a sight to behold.

1:10.0

Steve knew his mission in this game was to manage the conflict so fans across the world could witness the elegance of a beautiful game of field hockey.

1:18.6

Steve blew his whistle. The game was underway about 30 seconds into the match one of the Pakistani guys

1:24.4

went to hit the ball and when he followed through he hit one of the Indian guys.

1:29.5

It actually developed a cut underneath the shin guards and that's how hard he got hit.

1:35.2

Steve recognized that it was a little bit over aggressive so he gave a green card warning

1:40.9

the Pakistani player. About 30 seconds later, one of the Indian

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