What's up, lover girl?

Welcome back to the date with Since podcast.

I am so excited about this episode because I've been getting a few nudges here and

there having conversations with clients, having conversations in my DMs about flirting.

And I've been getting some nudges to do an episode, but this past weekend,

like, really, really, like, sent me over the edge to do the episode. So I was attending

my Latin poppy frontrunner. He invited me to his, his nieces, six-month, it's not a birthday, she's six months, her six months

anniversary or whatever, like that's his new niece that was born. And, you know, they find,

him and his family always find a reason to like celebrate and throw a party. And so I'm always, I've been recently like always at their parties.

And so I'm at this particular party and I'm speaking to one of his cousins, his primos, right?

And she was telling me like, hey, I'm 39 years old.

I've never been married, you know,

and I know she also has two almost adult children. And she's like, I haven't had a

relationship in like two years. And I just feel like I don't know what I'm doing. And the thing is,

like she had no idea I was a dating coach. But I just asked some questions around what was she currently doing to connect with men.

And as always, she really wasn't doing anything but like going out, like going to the grocery store, like going outside.

And she was like, and then I also don't know how to flirt.

And I was like, okay, tell me more.

Tell me more about what you mean about that.

She was like, this feels weird.

And it just feels like I don't know what I'm doing.

And I asked, I said, so what do you believe flirting is?

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