Hi my name is Louis Howes and welcome to the Daily Motivation Show.

What happens when the looks start to fade in women who have only put their value in their physical

appearance?

What happens?

Well, what happens is they end up with men who are equally shallow.

Here's the thing, if I'm just a pretty face I'm going to end up with a man who only likes pretty faces

now the reality is that man is so easily distracted with the next pretty face and the next 25 year old and the next

so what will happen is you're in a constant competition with people you can't

compete with for the rest of your life and similarly if I was somebody who just

sold sex and just I'm going to find a man who's addicted to sex and when that are addicted to sex will always want novelty, you'll never be enough.

So reality is when you create your identity on something so fragile you attract somebody who's also

very fragile and then you end up in a lonely cycle unfortunately.

Now whereas when you develop something deep you attract someone deeper and your connection tends to be more long lasting, God willing.

It tends to be more long lasting.

Right. I think I heard you share recently, financial connection and emotional connection.

Can you explain more about that?

Yeah, I think what's happening, unfortunately, men are being indoctrinated into thinking

that as long as you provide financially, you can get the hottest girl in the world and as a

result you you're a high value man and you've made it but essentially when you need

with finances you attract a woman who's emotionally detached because

emotionally present women finances does not compensate for lack of

quality time.

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