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Sports Motivation Podcast

How to deal with negative friends

Sports Motivation Podcast

Niyi Sobo

Sports, Business

4.9767 Ratings

🗓️ 16 September 2016

⏱️ 65 minutes

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Summary

For you to get results that you don't have, you're gonna have to do some things that you don't normally do. I'm here with another reality check, involving the people in your life that you hang around with the most. Listening to this episode will result in a sharper awareness of today's "drifter", who may be included in your everyday circle. With ruthless self-evaluation, and steps to help you stay free of negativity, your willingness to walk away from any situation will be your most powerful tool in life.


Episode 87 Time Stamps:

(2:30) A moment of appreciation: Thank you for your review, ThatGirl107.1! Wish the best of luck to you and your volleyball team!

(7:39) "Drifters" | "Outwitting the Devil" by Napoleon Hill

(16:23) A predictable/relatable stage in your personal life

(21:08) An introduction to the "understanding" stage

(22:09) Your circle MATTERS (deeply)

(25:41) Creating your "Friend Inventory"

(32:20) The important "sit-down" with your friends | Tell 'em your goals!

(37:00) Turning negative situations into advantageous ones

(37:37) Create a list of attributes/values of great friends that you want to be around

(40:30) Start conversations with people, when it feels right

(41:15) GO to events and seminars

(42:12) Listen. Read. Constantly.

(44:00) Test/challenge your conviction

(45:05) Steeping your goals!

(50:37) Make TOUGH decisions | Always be willing to walk away "The 50th Law" by 50 Cent & Robert Greene


DISCOVER

Today's blog post can be found here: Episode #87 Blog

 

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Transcript

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0:00.0

Could you benefit from building supreme confidence? What would change for you if you played your best when under pressure?

0:05.9

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0:12.0

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0:21.7

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0:25.9

up your results and follow a predictable system to get you to your goals.

0:30.1

Go to I'm not you.com forward slash dominate under pressure.

0:34.3

You can go ahead and access that free training in less than two minutes.

0:36.9

You'll be learning exactly what I teach my high performance professional athletes and clients about what it

0:41.8

takes to dominate. Again, I'm not you.com for slash dominate under pressure.

0:48.8

If you try to get right, then you listen to my dad. He's a beast.

0:59.8

And if you don't want to listen to him, okay, okay, you don't want to get successful.

1:03.6

If you ain't trying to dominate, man, they go listen to something else.

1:10.1

Welcome, athletes, top performers, and all those looking to gain that killer instinct,

1:11.6

that edge you need to dominate in any environment.

1:13.4

This is the Sports Motivation podcast, and I'm your host, Niyu Shobo.

1:18.6

I play ball and succeeded at the highest levels, and I'm now committed to showing you

1:23.6

how you can accomplish the ambitious goals and visions that you have.

1:28.3

This podcast is designed to teach you high-level strategy, not just fluff and hype.

1:33.7

This will cut to the core if you let it.

1:36.0

And by taking action on the practical and next-level advice I share, you will see results.

1:41.9

Expect that.

1:43.2

Expect to be more confident. Expect to be more focused. Expect to be more confident.

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