how to come up with your top five life goals.

And I've gone through this process with thousands of people.

Never had one person come back yet and say, hey, that didn't work.

And he said, I was sitting there for six weeks, not knowing whether I was going to live and die.

And I came up with a question.

And I started just answering that question.

And it changed everything and I said well

what's the question but having gone through cancer I remember staring at death in the face

you know once you're a survivor everyone whoever knows someone who had cancer says hey will you

talk to my brother my sister my wife and i also know some

people i talked to who didn't listen and said well i'm going to do it my own way they are dead

since we're not going to do any small talk let's have some big talk all right welcome to the big

leap in this episode we are going to be answering a great question that Gay came up with several years ago,

which is how to come up with your top five life goals.

And these are arguably some of the most powerful questions you can ever ask yourself

that originated or at least ended up being in the book that Gay wrote called Five Wishes.

So Gaye, what are some of the big takeaways in this episode that people want to tune into?

I think no matter what stage of life you're at, I happened to do it for the first time when I was in my 30s.

I sat down and I figured out what are the big five things I want to create in my life.

And I came up with some really good ones, and they've all come true. So I think there's a great advantage.

It gets you on a right path.

And like they always say, if you're not following your own life purpose,

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