The key to being a human super magnet for anyone or for anything is to not care, to not really give a fuck about what you're focusing so heavily on.

When you focus so much on the same problem or the same situation or the same thing over and over again,

it could actually cause you to spiral in a direction where you're pushing that

thing further and further away. And on today's episode I'm going to be talking

about how decreasing the importance of something and actually not focusing on it is going to attract it into your life and you're going to get more of it because you're not so heavily focused on the situation.

When you focus on a situation, you enhance it energetically.

You are making it so important that it's actually throwing it off balance.

Now let me give you a perfect example.

Have you ever been dating someone and then you tell everyone about it before it even really

escalates into anything? And then they give their opinions and suddenly it

shifts the dynamic and then the situation ends. You've told everyone, oh I'm at this

guy, I'm at this girl, we're getting married, and this is my husband, and I'm so happy, and this

guy is everything I've ever wanted and checks all the boxes.

And you're in the group chat, right, talking about about it and then all of a sudden over the next week or two.

Your situation fizzles out, they get weird, they get distant and the energy

dramatically shifts and suddenly you're like what the

fuck just happened I just told my whole family and my whole group chat that this

person was the love of my life and now they're being weird they're being

distant and I feel like the dynamic has shifted.

It's because when you place heavy importance on something and you start throwing more energy at it

and you start speaking it out loud into the universe.

Sometimes what happens is you throw the energy of the situation

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