How to Be Someone People Look Up To

The Mindset Mentor

Rob Dial

Business, Health & Fitness, Education, Mindset

4.9 • 14.2K Ratings

🗓️ 12 December 2025

⏱️ 16 minutes

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Summary

Are you trying to become someone others genuinely admire and look up to? In today’s episode, I break down what real respect is built on and why it starts in the shadows long before anyone is watching. I’ll show you how to become the kind of person you yourself look up to, what self-respect really looks like, and four daily actions that will transform how people feel in your presence. Feeling stuck? It's time to take back control. If you're ready to master your mind and create real, lasting change, click the link below and start transforming your life today. 👉 http://coachwithrob.com The Mindset Mentor™ podcast is designed for anyone desiring motivation, direction, and focus in life. Past guests of The Mindset Mentor include Tony Robbins, Matthew McConaughey, Jay Shetty, Andrew Huberman, Lewis Howes, Gregg Braden, Rich Roll, and Dr. Steven Gundry. Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See https://pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

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0:00.0	Welcome to today's episode of the Mindset Mentor Podcast. I'm your host, Rob Dial. If you have not
0:13.0	you done so, hit that subscribe button so you never miss another episode. We put out episodes
0:17.1	four times a week to help you learn and grow and improve yourself because if you can improve
0:21.6	yourself, you will improve your life. So if that's you, go ahead and hit that subscribe button.
0:26.2	Today, I'm going to be talking about how to be the type of person that people look up to.
0:31.1	The most admired people are not the loudest people in the room. They're the ones that are doing
0:36.7	the hard shit quietly when nobody's watching.
0:40.7	And the truth is, people already know who you are based off of how you show up and how they feel around you.
0:48.4	So if you want to be looked up to, you need to start acting like someone that's actually worth looking up to. And so today, we're
0:56.3	going to go over how to become that person and then four daily actions that you need to focus on
1:01.9	to become the type of person that's actually worth looking up to. The first thing is that you have
1:07.3	to understand that the respect that you crave is built in the shadows.
1:12.9	What do I mean by that?
1:14.7	We have to be honest.
1:15.7	Everybody wants to be admired.
1:17.2	Everybody wants to be looked up to.
1:19.3	Not in an ego-driven type of way, but like in a core human type of way.
1:24.7	We all want to be admired in some sort of way.
1:27.3	We want to be seen. We want to be seen. We want to be
1:29.0	valued. We want to be trusted. We want to be respected as a person. We just want to be somebody
1:36.0	that is worth looking up to. But the trap of all of it is this, is we often chase the performance of being admirable, trying to show up as the
1:48.6	interesting person or the person who is supposed to get respect from somebody or the type of person
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