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How to Be Girl Friends

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Society & Culture, Body Politics, Media Analysis, Feminism, Beauty Standards, Cultural Commentary, Gender, Womens Rights, Internet Culture, Personal Journals, Patriarchy, Intersectionality, Philosophy, Comedy

4.83.7K Ratings

🗓️ 7 August 2018

⏱️ 47 minutes

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Summary

Women's friendships: life-affirming sisterhood or hotbed of mean-girlness? From pop culture to politics, galpals are all the rage right now, so why aren't they taken more seriously? With help from girls at Camp Farwell and friendship author Kayleen Shaefer, Caroline and Cristen discover an age-old battle against besties that often keeps us from passing the IRL Bechdel Test. Plus, a pep talk for making friends from comedian and writer Erin Gibson. Pre-order Unladylike: A Field Guide to Smashing the Patriarchy and Claiming Your Space at unladylike.co. Follow Unladylike on social @unladylikemedia. Sign up for our newsletter at unladylike.co/newsletter. Hear our bonus episodes exclusively on Stitcher Premium! Use promo code "UNLADYLIKE" at stitcher.com/premium for a free month trial. This episode is brought to you by Beyond Meat [http://beyondmeat.com/unladylike], Vrai & Oro [http://truthandgold.com/unladylike], ZipRecruiter [http://ziprecruiter.com/unladylike], Pier1 [http://pier1.com] and Daily Look [http://dailylook.com/unladylike with code UNLADYLIKE]. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0

Oh, and he beautiful naive sophisticated newborn baby.

0:10.4

What?

0:11.4

And you beautiful tropical fish.

0:13.4

And you're beautiful and you're organized.

0:14.8

And you beautiful spencer.

0:17.3

I will find you love.

0:19.0

What did you say something?

0:20.0

Love you.

0:21.0

A lady like a lady like a lady like a lady like a lady like a lady like a lady like

0:31.6

a lady like.

0:34.6

I can't love.

0:37.0

Hey all and welcome to Unladylike where we find out what happens when women become

0:41.7

each other's tropical fish.

0:43.1

Yeah.

0:44.1

I'm Kristen.

0:45.1

And I'm Caroline.

0:46.8

And that Leslie note model of friendship love is something today's guest, Kayleen Schaefer,

0:51.3

has spent a lot of time thinking, talking, and writing about.

0:55.6

There's a lot of takes on female friendship that are surface, that are, you know, the

1:00.8

two women linking arms as they walk down the street or the wine glasses cheersing.

1:06.5

Kayleen is the author of Text Me When You Get Home, the evolution and triumph of modern

1:11.1

female friendship.

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