How to be confident and certain in what you believe in (even when family and friends don't agree with you)

Sports Motivation Podcast

Niyi Sobo

Sports, Business

4.9 • 767 Ratings

🗓️ 24 September 2019

⏱️ 32 minutes

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Summary

You grew up a certain way.....a part of a certain religion. Your family and friends are clear with what they believe in...the only problem is that you don't believe in the same things. At least not anymore. You are trying to recreate yourself. And in the midst of you trying to do this, you feel as uncertain, scared and hesitant as ever.

How do you become confident in what you believe in?

How do you handle the reality that some family members will no longer want anything to do with you?

In this episode I break down these harsh realities, and how to deal with them to be as confident as ever in your new identity.

Time Stamps:

(1:22) "Principles"

(2:49) Emotions

(3:35) The inspiration for today's episode!

(8:00) Independence... get outta the house.

(10:43) Make a conscious decision about who/what you want to be in life.

(11:19) Question the reality of your past.

(13:50) Time for action: Get a therapist/counselor.

(16:47) Study the history of your religion.

(18:45) Start clarifying your new philosophies.

(21:32) Redefine your standards in your relationships.

(23:14) Communicate those standards to your people.

(24:06) Observe.

(25:13) Invest in a "new family".

(27:15) LIVE IT.

(28:01) Modify and update as you go.

(29:26) imnotyou.com/ki

Transcript

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0:00.0	If you try to get right, then you listen to my dad.
0:03.0	He's a beast.
0:05.0	And if you don't want to listen to him, okay, okay, you don't want to get successful.
0:11.0	If you ain't trying to dominate, man, they go listen to something else.
0:15.0	Welcome, athletes, top performers, and all those looking to gain that killer instinct, that edge you need
0:22.4	to dominate in any environment. This is the Sports Motivation podcast, and I'm your host,
0:28.1	Nees Showbo. I play ball and succeeded at the highest levels, and I'm now committed to showing
0:34.3	you how you can accomplish the ambitious goals and visions that you have.
0:39.3	This podcast is designed to teach you a high-level strategy, not just fluff and hype.
0:44.7	This will cut to the core if you let it. And by taking action on the practical and next-level
0:50.1	advice I share, you will see results. Expect that.
0:55.5	Expect to be more confident.
0:57.2	Expect to be more focused.
0:59.1	Expect to be more decisive.
1:01.1	And expect to be more fearless.
1:04.9	Expect to become the leader your vision needs you to become.
1:06.3	So listen up.
1:07.1	Take notes.
1:08.7	Let's get to it.
1:25.3	Welcome to the Sports Motivation podcast. This is your host, Niyu Shobo.
1:31.7	This is called the Sports Motivation Podcast. But the way that I think,
1:38.5	the way that I have approached this podcast in general is this is built for a certain type of person.
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