Welcome back, everyone. Today I'm going to talk about three very specific things that are

blocking you from, and I put this in air quotes, attracting the right person and attracting love, romantic love into your life.

Number one, you date men.

So there's obviously a part of you that loves men.

You're attracted to men, but you also are terrified of them and you kind of hate them.

You date women and you're attracted to women,

but there's a part of you that fears them is resentful.

And there's some hatred there. I know that's a strong word, but I think

it's important to get really real about this. This is what I see all the time. I'm seeing it in

the comments section of my Instagram and social media posts.

I see it when people DM me, when people speak to me.

I see it out into it out in the wild.

There is so much, yeah, well, women, all women do this and all men do that. And then you wonder why you're

single or why you're not meeting that right person for you. Look, I understand how hard it can be

if you've had a lot of pain in relationships, if you've been hurt,

if you've had some really hard dating experiences, certainly if you're listening to,

you know, horror stories from your friends

and nightmare dating stories from your friends,

it's almost impossible to shield ourselves

from this sort of collective fear

about men and about women.

And I remember, about men and about women.

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