Hi, my name is Lewis Howes and welcome to the Daily Motivation Show.

What are my values? What do I stand for?

If you think, what do you mean what do I stand for? I can't afford gas, you know?

And so that, and I understand that, Right, I'm surviving. You are surviving,

but there are certain things you that you're willing to fight, really, really fight for and be,

and that you actually do need. For some people, for example, spirituality may really matter.

You cannot minimize that. And if a person from whom spirituality matters enters,

enters into a relationship for someone who doesn't,

it's not an indictment of either of them, but that may not be a language they can use with each other,

which might leave both of them frustrated.

There's some things that you're not going to fully map on to someone else.

Someone may say, I'm very comfortable with your spiritual world.

I'm simply not going to participate in it. And then that will work, and they'll say, I can see comfortable with your spiritual world. I'm simply not going to participate in it.

And then that will work. And they'll say, I can see how joyful it makes you. But what, the struggle

here, though, the main sort of pushback I'm going to have on your list is your list is predicated

on two healthy people. In the absence of empathy, your whole system goes away. Right? Without that, this doesn't work.

Compassion empathy, yeah.

And I think that there is, you know, I think that a lot of people right now in the world are engaging in pseudo-healing.

And I think it's just narcissistic navel gazing and they're actually not really healing.

What does that mean?

I think is that they're doing whatever they're doing. They're like, I meditate 75 times a day and I do mindfulness this and I, ayahuasca, that, and blah, blah, blah, blah.

And they do all of that.

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