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How to ACTUALLY Have a Healthy, Happy, and Long Lasting Relationship with Steven DeSalvo

Knowledge For Men

Andrew Ferebee

Masculinity, Education, Personalgrowth, Self-improvement, Howtobeaman, Confidence, Relationshipadvice, Health & Fitness, Financialfreedom, Personaldevelopment, Datingadvice, Productivity, Andrewferebee, Entrepreneurship, Knowledgeformen

4.5704 Ratings

🗓️ 10 December 2018

⏱️ 52 minutes

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Summary

Steven DeSalvo’s first book ‘Relationship Dynamics’ in the EVOLVE series helps to answer the question: ‘How can we change our world and the course of human evolution with positive outcomes for this planet and all of its inhabitants? This first book in this series has helped many to change and navigate to healthier relationship dynamics.

As a certified Permaculturist, his goal is to serve others in the attaining their highest evolutionary potential through writings and personal appearances to increase awareness and personal responsibility.

He moved to northern California in 2011 where he now resides and works as an independent writer, publisher, speaker and life coach. Often called a Renaissance man, Steven DeSalvo has a diverse background of creative, artistic, business and personal interests including writing and blogging on his web site www.BecomeAnAdult.com.

Favorite Success Quote

“Live your true authentic self”~Steven DeSalvo

Key Points

1. Introspection is the First Step to Better Relationships

You will never succeed in relationships with others until you are in a great relationship with yourself. And creating a great relationship with yourself requires that you spend time in introspection, truly learning who you are and falling deeply in love with yourself.

If you want to develop healthy relationships with others, start by spending time by yourself and investing in the man that you want to be, the rest will follow.

2. You Have to Create Systems for Conflict Resolution

In all relationships, no matter how “perfect” they may seem, you will face conflicts. It is inevitable. But what separates relationships that last from those that crash and burn is. There is such a thing as an elegant argument, but you have to be willing to let go of your need to be right.

Put yourself in your partner’s shoes, truly listen to them and what they are saying, not just the words that are coming out of their mouths, but the underlying message behind everything that they say. If you do this, your relationships will be happier, you will be happier, and life will be far more fulfilling.

3. A Healthy Relationship is Two People Setting Each Other Free

A healthy relationship is two people setting each other free, it is not one person completing another person, or one individual trying to fix another individual, it is two whole individuals who both have something unique to offer each other, coming together and sharing their gifts, talents, and love with one another.

If you get into relationships looking for someone to complete you, you will always be disappointed, but if you go into relationships looking for someone who is already complete whom you can join with and create an amazing life together, you will live a life of fulfilling and happy relationship.

Transcript

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0:00.0

Welcome to The Knowledge for Men's Show. Your life will never be the same. Your level of success will

0:05.1

seldom exceed your level of personal development. I want to die empty of regret. I want to die

0:10.2

empty of my best work. We don't understand who we are. Instead, we're living out somebody else's narrative.

0:15.8

But one man can do, another man can do. If it's been done, it can be done again.

0:20.1

Being yourself and being your truest, most authentic self in every do. If it's been done, it can be done again. Being yourself and being your

0:21.4

truest, most authentic self in every moment, if it scares you or makes you a little afraid, do it,

0:27.7

follow your heart and your gut. The first stage, I think, is finding you, like finding out who I am

0:32.8

today. Stuff will not work. You will have things that fail. Success is when you're a happy,

0:37.8

fulfilled person. How do you define success? It's your life and you are the creator of the movie script

0:44.0

that is your life story. So you might be wondering, why would I ever invest in a coach? I've

0:52.0

never done anything like that before. Well, it's going to shorten your learning curve and save you the time that it would take to

0:57.9

achieve your goal. You can avoid making mistakes that you would otherwise make. You'll get more

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1:11.5

so you can't say, I didn't have the time.

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You'll be challenged and pushed harder than you've ever been pushed.

1:17.5

You'll have conversations so powerful that you'll feel more energized, alive, and confident,

1:22.9

and certain about the goals that you have in front of you and where you want to go,

1:27.2

most importantly, where you want to go, most importantly,

1:28.4

where you want to be. You'll go farther than you've ever gone before when you have a coach.

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