How pronouns reveal our psychology. How'd we get our alphabet? Tabagogox.
Grammar Girl: For Writers and Language Lovers.
Mignon Fogarty, Inc.
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🗓️ 5 August 2025
⏱️ 15 minutes
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1105. This week, we look at how the pronouns you use can reveal your psychological state — for example, how using "I" versus "we" can signal how you are coping with a breakup or a tragic event. Then, we look at where our alphabet started, from ancient Egyptian hieroglyphs to the Phoenicians and Romans.
The psychology of pronouns segment was written by Valerie Fridland, a professor of linguistics at the University of Nevada in Reno and the author of "Like Literally, Dude: Arguing for the Good in Bad English." You can find her at valeriefridland.com.
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| 0:00.0 | Grammar Girl here. I'm Injohn Fogarty, your friendly guide to the English language. Today, |
| 0:10.7 | we're going to talk about the psychology of pronouns, and then we'll talk about where the alphabet came from. |
| 0:17.3 | Working with several colleagues, psychologist James Pena Baker, author of The Secret Life of Pronouns, |
| 0:23.7 | found that how we use pronouns and various other function words provides a surprisingly good |
| 0:29.6 | assessment of people's psychological states. For example, several studies showed that I Talk |
| 0:36.2 | often co-occurs with depression. In examining essays written |
| 0:41.1 | by college students, Rude Gortner and Pennebaker found that depressed students used more |
| 0:47.2 | eye words than non-depressed students. And in a study looking at the poetry of poets who committed suicide compared to non-suicidal poets, |
| 0:57.3 | Sturman and Pennebaker also found higher rates of eye words, which the researchers suggest shows that these poets were more intensely inward or self-focused. |
| 1:08.9 | But using more eye words doesn't always mean you're depressed, especially when you're in |
| 1:14.3 | social interactions that involve differences in relative status or increased social connectivity. |
| 1:20.5 | For example, commiserating with a friend will often bring out the we and you in all of us. |
| 1:26.5 | For example, why don't we go have dinner and you |
| 1:29.8 | can tell me all about it. But if you're talking to someone about something you need for a project, |
| 1:36.0 | you'll likely shift to I. In other words, different contexts require different pronouns, |
| 1:42.0 | but a measurable shift in one's pronouns from we to I |
| 1:46.0 | appears to signal something about a person's emotional state. |
| 1:50.8 | Looking at patterns of how people use pronouns in this way can help us understand how people |
| 1:56.5 | deal with the effect of catastrophic or personally challenging events. |
| 2:01.6 | For example, by looking at how people used pronouns differently after the 9-11 attacks |
| 2:06.9 | in both conversational data and internet chats and posts, researchers discovered that there |
| 2:13.3 | was a notable decrease in the use of I pronouns and a corresponding increase in the use of |
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