How Often Should I Be Having Sex?
Heaven In Your Home
Francie Winslow
4.9 • 660 Ratings
🗓️ 12 September 2022
⏱️ 42 minutes
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Summary
This is a loaded question. Stop “should-ing” on yourself, especially when it comes to your marriage. “Should” is a word that connotes a duty or a chore…who wants that? Let’s reframe the question moving forward.
Rather, let’s focus on the benefits of an active and growing sex life. While we can focus on the many health benefits, what if we flip the question and understand what’s behind your questions about “how often.”
In this episode you’ll be encouraged to reframe the way you think about frequency or differing sex drives. Listen in and hear a more helpful approach to choosing intimacy and connection.
Resources Mentioned:
The 10 Health Benefits of Regular Sex. Here
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| 0:00.0 | Hello, friends. We're going to begin with another testimony today on the Heaven in Your Home |
| 0:06.0 | podcast. I love hearing from you. If you have a testimony or a way that God has worked through the |
| 0:11.3 | podcast to help strengthen, heal, transform your mindset, your marriage, your perspective on your body, |
| 0:18.7 | please send it to me because I would be, A, so encouraged to hear |
| 0:22.2 | about what God is doing and to say, praise Jesus right along with you. And I think other women |
| 0:28.2 | would be really encouraged as well. So feel free to send me your testimonies and I can try to |
| 0:34.7 | incorporate them into the podcast. But this is a sweet friend who listened and shared her story. |
| 0:40.3 | She says, Hey, Francie, I started listening to your podcast around these orgasm episodes |
| 0:45.4 | and then went back to the start as well. |
| 0:48.0 | And they have been making such a deep and beautiful change in my marriage already. |
| 0:52.9 | That is a little tip. |
| 0:53.9 | Side note, this is fancy talking. |
| 0:56.3 | I love that these testimonies are often women who jump in and then they go back to the beginning. |
| 1:01.5 | So that is one of the best ways to use this podcast. Start where you are, but then make sure you go |
| 1:06.9 | back to the beginning so you get the full foundational picture. Okay, back to this friend. |
| 1:12.1 | My husband and I had a few minutes alone from our two under two household as we drove back to |
| 1:18.1 | pick them up. I told him about the podcast and just said, scroll and choose an episode that sounds |
| 1:23.6 | interesting and we'll listen together. It worked out great because we got caught in |
| 1:27.6 | major traffic, smiley face, but we listened to the episode about sex during hard seasons, |
| 1:33.5 | and that was back to back with the tired mom episode. There was something that clicked when we |
| 1:38.3 | listened about sex being a tool to bring connection and fight the enemy's plan to drive a wedge between us. I've been following |
| 1:46.1 | another podcast page that is with a sex therapist and her husband. It's been helpful, |
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