Welcome to Getting Curious. I'm Jonathan Beness and every week I sit down for a 40-minute

conversation with a brilliant expert Trillin all about something that makes me curious.

This week I'm curious about relationships and what we should think about before committing

to one, which is why I spoke with Dr. Stan Taken, author of the new book We Do. And

asked is there a one or does everyone just some?

Welcome to Getting Curious. This is Jonathan Beness. I am so excited to welcome back to the

podcast Stan Taken, author, writer, extraordinaire. What's like your, like not COPD because that's

chronic obstruction of hole in there. But what are your gorgeous, you got, you got titles

of plenty in therapy. I, you know what, I collect them and trade them.

Yeah, but like what you got like 17, like what's like the highlights?

I, which time? Like CSS, C, P, R, certify, C, D, C, D, S, D, S, D, S, D, S, D, S, D,

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UI.com. Okay, so thank you. Like

What's that wave anchor and island thing again?

Is that the same category when we're talking about?

It's like island wave anchor, or did I like cross-tool?

No, that's good.

Yes.

All that has to do is with security or insecurity

at childhood and adulthood.

So security means that you and I feel that we can interdepend

on each other, we can trust each other with our lives.

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