How Do Narcissists Act When You Are Sad Around Them?
The Mental Healness Podcast
Lee Hammock
4.9 • 1.2K Ratings
🗓️ 7 November 2025
⏱️ 13 minutes
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Summary
Why do **narcissists** react negatively when you are **sad**? This video looks at the **emotional** reactions of narcissists when confronted with your **grief**. Understanding this lack of **emotional intelligence** can help you.
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| 0:00.0 | So what happens when you're sad around a narcissist? Like how do they act? How did they react? Do they treat you any better? Do they get kind, caring and compassionate and stroke your hair or hug you and kiss you? Or did they go in the other room and slam the damn door or pretend like nothing's happened? Or did they tell you to shut the hell up and stop your whining what happens |
| 0:22.9 | that's what we're talking about today y'all of course if you're new here my name is le hammock |
| 0:26.0 | i'm a diagnosed narcissus here to give you the inside look at the mind of a narcissus and welcome |
| 0:29.8 | to another episode of the narcissus code let's get it So boom, welcome back, folks, welcome back, welcome back. |
| 0:51.3 | Yes, narcissistic people do not like it when you are sad around it. Well, not every single narcissist. Now let me go ahead and lead the video off by saying no two narcissists are the same. Got it. Got it? Good. Good. No two narcissistic people, two toxic-ass people are going to be the same. |
| 1:12.9 | So no two narcissists are going to react the same. |
| 1:15.6 | Now, some could react in certain ways and whatnot, right? |
| 1:20.3 | But this is what goes on right here. |
| 1:22.7 | This is what happens in these certain situations. |
| 1:25.0 | They're going to react differently. |
| 1:26.9 | So let's hot right into it, y'all. |
| 1:28.3 | Could there be a narcissist out there that when you get sad, they get kind, caring, and compassionate? |
| 1:38.3 | When you are sad around them, they just be like, you know what? |
| 1:41.3 | I'm going to be here for you. |
| 1:43.3 | I'm going to be the best thing that ever happened to you. |
| 1:45.9 | I'm going to do everything that needs to be done. |
| 1:48.6 | I lean on me, look, cry on my shoulder. |
| 1:51.0 | Look, I don't even need a handkerchief. |
| 1:52.5 | You can just get my shirt wet. |
| 1:54.5 | Cry, I'll hook you, I'll kiss you, I'll be there. |
| 1:56.8 | I'll clap them cheeks if you need me to. |
| 2:00.4 | Dudos exist. |
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