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So I want to know how can I go on in the ways I can trust my husband after he had moved all our savings without telling me.

I discovered it.

And he keeps on making financial decisions

without telling me or asking me.

Where did you take your savings?

Well, he moved it to another account and that, well, part of it that has higher interest and some of it went into some investments.

But like, not a concern because we kind of talked about it.

But it's just not the only, in the last two years,

not the only time that he did things and I discovered it.

Well, I guess there's two things here.

One is you can't, like you're asking yourself to do something um like you're asking yourself to find trust

within yourself and the person you're trying to trust continues to violate the trust and so if you want

to reestablish trust then you have to put down on on the table lay it out there here's what

must be true for me to trust you again

we're going to have to we're going to have to practice and we're going to have to go step by step

to reestablish trust and then the other person has to participate yeah so like relationally

I know what to ask of him like I want I know like first you know, like, first you do this, this and this, and then we can, like, work together and, you know, I'll...

So, would it make you...

Would it make you...

But financially, I don't know what to ask of him, because I thought we had, like, a joint bank account, and it turns out, like, probably I don't know what a joint bank account and it turns out like probably I don't know what a

joint bank account is and what like what I ask of what should I ask of him to be sure that

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